Sunday, March 14, 2010

What is Love?

Probably, this is how people look like when they're in love. I forgot how mine was like, I remember it was when I'm so loud the whole building could hear my voice, and my actions were everywhere.

I started to question myself and a few of my friends around who are single and currently in a relationship. What is this "food" called love?

There was a person who gave me an interesting debate. I asked that person, why is it people keep on looking for the better ones in the end? If they did, then why said the word "I love you" ? It doesn't make any sense. You know that the relationship won't last any longer that anyone would thought. Does the sentence "I love you" means "ok im gonna be sooo into you for the time being until i found someone else better than you prick"


So that person told me the reason why is it that people keep on changing partners:-

"Because they know there's something wrong with the relationship, and they can't find anything good from their partners anymore. It's either the relationship become too boring from them because nothing in the relationship changed. When someone met their current, they saw something in their partners and they thought they can stay on, and then they get together for a longer time and they realize that, it is not right. If they continue with their current for the rest of their life, knowing that there was a mistake, they will never get married. Even if they did, they will divorce."

If this is what everyone thinks, then this is probably a cycle that runs in everyone. Nobody will get their ideal partner. Maybe those who stayed on with their current partner are regretting, why the fuck am I with this person? I could've gotten the better ones. Guys maybe will think to get someone with bigger boobs or someone much prettier, girls might want to have someone with bigger "ego" or handsome stud. Maybe those who are still with the ones they thought they love but they couldn't leave their partner are weaklings. Maybe they don't have the will or guts, or even the chance to speak up and stand up for themselves.

Everyone will regret in the end for the rest of their life if they did got together somehow. There's no such thing as eternal love. Engagements are pointless, marriages are nonsense. Being tied up into a commitment then in the end they gonna regret it for the rest of their life, and dissapoint each other by divorce, and go for someone who they think they can rely on or someone they can look up to, in the end, they knew it was wrong.

It's a cycle, it's endless. Nobody is "a better person". Everyone will keep looking for the best and regret being tied up with their spouse. Everyone will keep regretting. This is so true that everyone doesn't realize that they're on the road of disappointment. Love can never bring eternal happiness, and it is not worth it.

Those who are reading this, think for yourself for a moment, is it worth it? Am I with the right person? Will I ever regret? When will I meet my "better" person?


Each and everyone of you, including me, will throw away this love for someone you loved for the time being and go for someone else better. It never stops, even if we got married with someone that we thought, are the right person.



Yours Sincerely,
dvn
king of kings




1 comment:

ohtheaida! said...

Sometimes,just 'love' is not enough. Love is something.When you get it, you need to work on it.Don't let it get rusty and old.Love needs excitement and adventure.Love needs companion and promises.Love needs trust.Love, needs to be communication between the two.